I am...

Leroy Yap

Taurus

i'm born at 23rd April '92, living out my dreams. if you want my email, please contact me, either in msn or through tagboard.

INTERESTS

I'm chillin' to the tunes of my guitars, wondering about a future in drama, thinking about performances and finding that piece of myself.


Twits
follow me on Twitter

tagboard


Melodies

Intrigues

the gone memories
July 2007
August 2007
September 2007
October 2007
November 2007
December 2007
January 2008
February 2008
March 2008
April 2008
May 2008
June 2008
July 2008
August 2008
September 2008
October 2008
November 2008
December 2008
January 2009
February 2009
March 2009
April 2009
May 2009
June 2009
July 2009
August 2009
September 2009
October 2009
November 2009
December 2009
January 2010
February 2010
March 2010
April 2010
May 2010
June 2010
July 2010
August 2010
November 2010
December 2010
January 2011
February 2011
March 2011
April 2011
May 2011
June 2011
July 2011
August 2011
September 2011
November 2011
January 2012
March 2012
May 2012
June 2012
July 2012
August 2012
November 2012
December 2012
January 2013
February 2013
April 2013
May 2013
June 2013
August 2013
September 2013
November 2013
December 2013
January 2014
June 2014
September 2014
February 2018

links

Sarah
Dominique
Wen Jie
Joscelyn
Janel
Victoria
Alethea[Fairy]
Kimberly
Elin
Ailn
Xue Ting
QianYi
Nick Yue[Chappy]
Andrew[AO]
Uriah
Dean
Rui Yuan
Lucas
Eugene
Weng Loong
Darice
Eunice
Jenzi
Julia
Felicia
Xue Ni
Xue Wen
Ying Hui
Jasmine
Tyan Huey
Krystal
Bryan
Yuan Ye/ Ben
Guy's Connect
N350
W401
Ps Kong Hee
Ps Phil Pringle
Joshua
Sherwayne
Irfan
Aryani
Aishah
Natalie
Timothy[cr0wnes7]
S3-A2 of 2007
My Xanga account
Friendster
My Deviant Art
Facebook
Comics
Yoyo Tricks & Tips
Praise and Worship
Chords for all
CASS blog
DADP blog
Christiana
Natalie
Sharon
Constance
Steph
Shah
Polly
Madelyn
Charissa
Carin
Jerry [Doggie]
Nandini
Zac
Sebastian
Yi Kai
Beatrice
Juanita
Veronica
Leon
Jay
Lea
Ezzat
Lisbeth
Janel Wong
Vivian
Shida
SP Comperes
Jas
Sam
Bryan
Jit
Yan Han
Sakinah
Tammy
Zheng Yan
Felicia
Dave
Eugene
Alia
SPARC
Jiale

credits

daisy's the designer. pictures owned by designer. forgotton the origin of brushes, sorry. please notify me if you know where it come from. thanks.

Monday, May 20, 2013
Choices

So I've recently gone on this TEDtalk inflation. In case you haven't heard about TEDtalks - they are recorded in conferences where brilliant researchers come together to share their insights and views on issues they spent a good portion of their lives working on. Condensing issues down to a 20mins talk- to set others thinking.

A couple of the brilliant talks I've come across are Do schools kill creativity by Sir Ken Robinson, The art of Asking by Amanda Palmer, The power of introverts by Susan Cain, The power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown and the Paradox of Choices by Barry Schwartz. Then there is If I should have a daughter by Sarah Kay- which brought me to these TED talks in the first place.

They've all set me pondering and thinking about happiness, love, creation, creativity, perception, understanding and most importantly- why research is so important in everything we do. And I just want to reflect upon some of those things here: in the form of writing.

We experience the world as individuals- no two people share exact experiences. So then, there is no set standard for how things are meant to run. 

Now, I'm not saying there isn't a definition of right or wrong. Moral reasoning will always remains a greater part of the human psyche, it fulfills our function for survival as a society. I'm just saying non-normative influences on development in our society has been ever increasing. A good example is the various ages people graduate from university or get admitted into one. 

This is an easy example to draw from as I relate to it personally- watching peers move into universities of their choices and I am held back by national service. I wish to move on with education and my career too- but it doesn't make my experiences in the army less valid. It does however, impact the way I relate to the world and the people around me.

I am afraid of being wrong- I'll admit that. We all are- society has hard wired us to not accept failure. That it is a horrible and unacceptable thing. So much so, that in education- I think I can safely say this, the motivation for a good part of our cohort is no longer to learn and wonder but to not fail instead. That's why everyone is striving to be straight A, biochemist, nuclear physicist, ultra-marathoner, Pulitzer writer, ironmen or women.

But failure teaches too. And I know that all too well because I, as with everyone else, have struggled with "Not good enough"- and come out on the battered end. But it doesn't stop anything- life has to happen and it will with or without failures.

But here is the next problem- millenials. We have heard criticism about them and all the new coverage. They are the "me, me, me" generation and are subject to Facebook, Instagram, twitter and a myriad of social networking tools to "broadcast" to the world- in search of validity and to feed their love for the idea of "I am me." They quote and misquote, air their vulnerabilities online and bare their teeth at dirty linen in the virtual world.

I admire technology, I love it. I think it is one of the best things to happen in the world. But this needs some control. As Sir Ken Robinson says "it is interesting how education has the same hierarchy of subjects no matter where you go." Math and languages, humanities then the arts. And even in the arts - music and visual arts are placed above drama and dance.

Why?

Don't we all have bodies? Wouldn't we all dance if we were given the opportunity to? That's my issue with how technology affects the millenials- they prefer tech over physical activities a lot of time. And they'd want to watch rubbish to fulfill their boredom. Unless they are the blessed few who then spend a good part of their lives being controlled to focus on another task. Otherwise, I'd say technology is taking away out ability to listen because of the power to broadcast.

There is so much more to understands and I wish I had the capacity to do so much more- but for now, it is time to focus on keeping standards in the army to defend our systems against threats. Maybe I think and worry too much- but I don't think anything is an isolated event and eventually we will feel the repercussions of our present- in the future.